Passalacqua feels less like a hotel than a house party with very good staff. There are only 24 rooms, split between three buildings, so choosing where to sleep is the main decision: the Villa for frescoes and lake views, the Palazz behind it for something warmer and more private, or the four rooms of the Casa al Lago right by the water.
The gardens run down the hillside in terraces, with a pool framed by old climbing roses, a clay tennis court, a bocce court beside the vegetable garden and a gym in a former greenhouse facing the olive grove. A daily programme of activities is included in every stay, from pasta-making and gelato classes to open-air cinema, and the boat trips on the hotel's Riva launches are the thing guests talk about afterwards.
This is a place for doing very little, slowly. Milan is about an hour away for a day of shopping or opera, but guests who want nightlife on the doorstep or a big resort with several restaurants may find it too quiet. We tend to suggest it for anniversaries and for couples who like their hotels small and personal.